They are our leaders, our trendsetters, our troublemakers and our innovators. Being an alpha male is great in many ways and depressing in countless others. The same goes for alpha women looking for their counterparts.
More often than not, we'll find the most difficult task for us is finding a partner — finding someone to rule the world with us. Step one is understanding what you need to look for.
If you're an alpha male, you may find this list incredibly useful: There isn't much alpha males values over loyalty — they are pack leaders and expect those they lead to commit and stay loyal to them.
He expects unwavering loyalty — and understandably so. It may have been the case so many millions of years ago, but due to evolution, intelligence is now key.For an alpha male to be seen as an alpha male, he must be incredibly intelligent. Alpha males often fall into the habit of finding women who value superficial things over intellect.Unfortunately, this never works out in the end; the alpha male gets bored, realizes he made a mistake, and calls it quits.The smarter you are, the smarter your girlfriend must be.Alpha males are driven by passion, by their wants, needs, goals and dreams.
Their sole purpose in life is to create the lives they wish for themselves.
This is often why they have such a difficult time finding women with whom they wish to share their lives — few can keep up. We thrive off what we envision our lives to be, but holding on to that vision can be difficult.
If you're an alpha male and are looking for a partner, then look for a woman who will actually act as a partner. Living life as an alpha male isn't easy — in fact, it's much more difficult. There is nothing more dangerous in the world than an alpha male who loses that vision, who loses the understanding of why he exists.
Find yourself a girlfriend who has her own vision of her ideal reality, and the two of you will never lose track.
Control is the magical ingredient that turns dreams into reality.
Alpha males get off on control more than anything else.