The first message you send to a woman online will make or break your chances with her.
Subject Line: Sorry, no pictures of my junk included…Email: This may come as a surprise to you, but I’m going to make you wait to see the Family Jewels.Now, don’t get me wrong, it’s not because I’m ashamed of what I’ve got.I just figured you’d seen enough of those pictures from the other guys emailing you. Email: There’s no point in opening any other emails.How’s about instead of exchanging perverted pics, let’s talk about what we’re looking for in a partner over some drinks this weekend? I read through your profile and, as you will notice, we’re both looking for the same things in a partner. And, let’s face it, I’m a pretty darn good looking dude!
So hit me up when you get a chance and maybe we can set something up for this weekend. In both emails, we conquered each of those requirements.
There were no lame clichés that men still think work. We kept the emails short, to the point, and they were original.
We were also aggressive in suggesting we get together soon.
The last point we need to make on introductory emails is to ask a question, preferably at the end.
This gives her something to respond to and helps get the conversation going.
I’ve been doing the whole online dating thing on and off for years now and let me just say, I’ve had the entire range of good, bad and ugly messages arrive in my inbox.