Chomas, I've recently been speaking quite a bit about the possible risks of dating someone who is much older than you are as well as dating someone who already has a partner.
If I think of myself as a teenager, what I liked back then is a bit different to what I like now.But even then it was always nice to have other teens who could relate because we generally liked the same things.Being in a relationship where you can do things that you both enjoy is definitely a great thing, you have to admit chomas.A recent study in Rostock, Germany determined that the greater the age gap between you and your husband, the lower your life expectancy.It doesn't matter whether you are older or younger than him—you don't want a gap.
It's best for you to marry someone exactly the same age.
An older dude will shorten your life and a younger one will really shorten it.
Only men—and not women—benefit psychologically and socially from a younger spouse. "On average, men have fewer and lesser quality social contacts than those of women," says study author Sven Drefahl.
So a woman with a younger husband isn't going to benefit from her jailbait husband taking her to the seniors' center; she already has friends for that, but an old man doesn't.
And a younger partner shortens a woman's life why now?
"One of the few possible explanations is that couples with younger husbands violate social norms and thus suffer from social sanctions," says Drefahl.